Thursday, 13 December 2018


Come to think of it,was it not just recently that we celebrated Christmas and surprisinly Christmas is here again,in exactly 12 days we would be celebrating the birth our Lord Jesus Christ.Time really flies.The excitement that the festive season brings is overwhelming.

I want to impress on us something that has been on my mind for sometime. Many of us had goals,dreams and aspirations ,that we wanted to achieve.Its 12 days to Christmas right.....well I call it 12 days in retrospection,during these days ,I see it as an opportunity to reflect over the previous months,weeks and days.

What went wrong:Most of us had goals and dreams we wanted to achieve,but some way somehow,we have not been able to achieve them,sometimes we even feel like giving up.Its  tupsetting and disappointing,yeah we all through it.Its natural to feel down,but instead of dwelling too much on it,there is the need to analyse the situation and find out what went wrong,what should have been done,more like a hypothesis and fix them,we become better to achieve our goals and aspirations.

Was there any growth:Physically,most of us increase in size,height,weight,others too remained the same,others too reduced in weight.Am talking of personal growth in our behaviours,how we take offences,have we grown spiritually,emotionally,socially,just to mention a few.No one is perfect but we can try  to better than who we were before. I admit its not easy especially in a world full of imperfect people,so through all the adventures,experiences,the fiasco that confront us daily,we need to grow through it,learn our lessons and say to ourselves that we are going to be better through this experience,with God on our side everything is going to be fine.

Springboard :As we move into the new year,what is your aspiration or motivation,what do you expect the new year to be like.Let the passing year be a yardstick to the new year,even with the little time left,something can be done,dont lose hope yet.

Lessons learnt:There were some lessons ,personally I learnt so much,I learnt that life is too short,appreciate and love those who love you,pray for them and move on.

I throw a challenge  to you that make your life become better than who you were before.


Friday, 9 November 2018


What is more beautiful than a blooming flower,what is more charming than a lovely sunset?  My dear friends ,I don't know about you,but I believe it is a smile.

A smile ,it is said is of no use unless it is given away,it may just take a few seconds for you to gift a smile to someone  but the memory of that smile,the cheer and hope ,it might have given to that person would last a lifetime.

At the same time,it is always a joy to watch an innocent new-born baby smile,that is life at its beginning ready to move on.It is again a joy to see the smile on the wrinkled face of an old man or woman looking back at life with the satisfaction of having run their race well.

Sadly ,so many people simply forget to smile as they worry too much about what is going to happen tomorrow. 1 Peter 5:7 says that "Cast all your anxiety unto God for he cares for you. It is this sure knowledge that God cares for you,that  makes you smile more even in the difficult times.

Always put a smile on your face because it is a very powerful weapon,not a cheesy fake one,but a genuine smile of happiness.
I gurantee you,if you do this,you will feel so much better. Remember God is always faithful,He will hold you up. Rejoice,because all things work together for our good.

We shall never know all the good that a simple smile can do,Mother Theresa
,So why dont you just smile.

Monday, 3 September 2018

Is Your Beauty Paying Off?

Ever wondered what you can do with the beauty that God has blessed you with,quiet deep right? I realised there is weakness on the side of women when it comes to the  woman's ability to influence in their relationships.One thing that I have  noticed is that a lot of women put greater importance on our outlook,the way we appear,our hair do,our nails,make up,how people perceive us and all of that stuff which is a very good thing because the Bible even says that man looks on the outward but God looks at the heart,so it is important for us to enhance our outward appearance because that is the nature of man's  perception of a person.Looking at the life of Queen Esther and all the other women who were in the competition to become next queen for the king ,they all went through some physical preparation with cosmetics and spices for a whole year,so it is important to look really good on the outside.

I realised that it is very difficult for younger women to influence men, the ability to influence the decisions they make,to speak to their minds,the way they perceive things or even the state of your relationships,not just love relationships,but also in our businesses,friendships,in school or even in our marriages.We have placed a lot of importance on our outward appearance that we have not developed whats on the inside,now it makes a lot of sense to me why they say beauty lies in the inside and not on the outside.

In the Bible ,Queen Esther was chosen by the king because of her outlook,but when it came to speaking to the king's mind,she went on a fast and prayed because she wanted to influence the King's mind and his decisions.
As Godly women if we want the same thing in our relationships,career and even in our marriages,we must activate the part of us that generates power and influence.Come to think of it,you cannot change a man's mind,influence his decisions,or even the way he perceives you by your looks,you do so by activating you spirit man.

A lot of young women are compromising and yielding to anything that the man says in the relationship because you really have no influence over his life,his mind,his decisions or the choices he makes with regards to your destiny.

I throw a challenge to us as Godly women to develop our spirit man,determine to be praying more,reading the Bible even more than you do,to go on on a something that challenges you and builds you up  ,because that is where the power of authotity and influence lies.

Finally,1Peter 3;3-4 says that 'whose adorning let it not be that outward adorni ng of plating the hair and of wearing of gold or of putting on of apparel,but let it be the hidden man of the heart,in that which is not corruptible,even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit which is in the sight of God of great price.

Hello September,lets meet in December.

Yours Truly.


Tuesday, 6 March 2018


Ever  wondered   been given the chance to give an advice  to your younger  self , given the chance to travel from the future back to the past.Looking back to my younger years,I am   sometimes amazed  at   how my  life  has  turned.Nothing is exactly as I had planned, but one thing that never changed     is God,who I am and  my values.

I gathered a few things which I would love to tell my younger self :

  • You are good enough,do not give anyone the chance to make you feel otherwise.
  • Patience and persistence ultimately pay off.
  • Don;t let anyone ever tell you ,your dreams are out of reach.Only YOU know your full potential.
  • Dreams are nothing without action,Dream it then do it
  • Fear is a wolf,Chase the wolf and you will never be afraid of the things you once feared.
  • Life is called a "rat race",but remember it is a marathon and not a sprint.
  • Learn to accept the unconditional love you deserve and to give it tenfold in return.
  • Happiness is not just the most important thing in life,it is the only thing that matters.
  • Celebrate your victories in life,even the small ones.
Finally 2 Timothy 1:6-18,You received a gift from God when I placed my hands on you to ordain you.Now I am reminding you to fan that gift into flames.God didn't give us a cowardly spirit but a spirit of power,love and good judgement.So never be ashamed to tell others about our Lord or be ashamed of me,his prisoner. Instead,by God's power,join me in suffering for the sake of the Good news.

What would you tell your younger self ?.Please share your thoughts. Happy Independence day!!!

Yours Truly.

Friday, 17 November 2017



She stood in the mirror,admiring and saying herself."wow I look so pretty today,I cant wait to get all the attention when I step on the red carpet.To her amazement,no one really noticed her,she felt terrible and sad because she did not get the attention she was seeking.

Many of us can relate to this lady in question,we do not have a good self-image,some of us don't even realize

our worth and how we can impart our world.Let me tell you this,we will never rise above the image we have of our ourselves if we continue to wallow in self-pity and see ourselves as defeated and weak.This sets the limit in our lives,many people have low self-esteem,feel insecure,unqualified and  wonder why nothing good comes to them .

We have got to change the way we see ourselves,"I am today what I believed about myself yesterday and I will be tomorrow what I believed about myself today.If you do not like the way things are going,change what you believe in and start seeing yourself rise to new levels,believe that you are someone who is full of the light of God.

God has planted seeds of greatness in everyone of us,we have everything it takes to be great. So my dear,shake off all that worry.

You are more than a conqueror,you are well able to be what God has called you to be.The price to live a life full of victory has already been paid.This has to be at the back of your mind always,failure to do so  means you are going to miss out on everything that is yours.
 Assuming you have a car,but you sitting down and burning up because,you have no idea how  the air conditioner operates,its there but sadly you have not read the manual. This applies to us as well,we don't read the manual for our lives,the Holy Bible. The Bible tells us that we were created in the image of God and we have been crowned with Glory,we are His most priced asset.

This tells us of the power we carry,we have been approved and accepted,we are His special treasure.All we need to do is to re -program our minds and stay positive.

It does not matter what you go through,God does not focus  on our failures.He has confidence in us,He will make you the person you want to be.
Even in the natural,when someone has confidence in us,it motivates us to have confidence in ourselves.
If you knew how God believes in you and how He sees you,you won;t shirk,you will rise to new levels with boldness,confidence and nothing will stop you from fulfilling your destiny.
Change your thinking,do not live in mediocrity.

Enlarge your vision Yours truly.