Is Your Beauty Paying Off?

Ever wondered what you can do with the beauty that God has blessed you with,quiet deep right? I realised there is weakness on the side of women when it comes to the  woman's ability to influence in their relationships.One thing that I have  noticed is that a lot of women put greater importance on our outlook,the way we appear,our hair do,our nails,make up,how people perceive us and all of that stuff which is a very good thing because the Bible even says that man looks on the outward but God looks at the heart,so it is important for us to enhance our outward appearance because that is the nature of man's  perception of a person.Looking at the life of Queen Esther and all the other women who were in the competition to become next queen for the king ,they all went through some physical preparation with cosmetics and spices for a whole year,so it is important to look really good on the outside.

I realised that it is very difficult for younger women to influence men, the ability to influence the decisions they make,to speak to their minds,the way they perceive things or even the state of your relationships,not just love relationships,but also in our businesses,friendships,in school or even in our marriages.We have placed a lot of importance on our outward appearance that we have not developed whats on the inside,now it makes a lot of sense to me why they say beauty lies in the inside and not on the outside.

In the Bible ,Queen Esther was chosen by the king because of her outlook,but when it came to speaking to the king's mind,she went on a fast and prayed because she wanted to influence the King's mind and his decisions.

As Godly women if we want the same thing in our relationships,career and even in our marriages,we must activate the part of us that generates power and influence.Come to think of it,you cannot change a man's mind,influence his decisions,or even the way he perceives you by your looks,you do so by activating you spirit man.

A lot of young women are compromising and yielding to anything that the man says in the relationship because you really have no influence over his life,his mind,his decisions or the choices he makes with regards to your destiny.

I throw a challenge to us as Godly women to develop our spirit man,determine to be praying more,reading the Bible even more than you do,to go on on a fast.do something that challenges you and builds you up  ,because that is where the power of authotity and influence lies.

Finally,1Peter 3;3-4 says that 'whose adorning let it not be that outward adorni ng of plating the hair and of wearing of gold or of putting on of apparel,but let it be the hidden man of the heart,in that which is not corruptible,even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit which is in the sight of God of great price.

Hello September,lets meet in December.

Yours Truly.

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